Life Reflection

I thought that when two people joined a union it is supposed to be a commented that they will be together. What happens when the bond is violated? When trust is out the door than dysfunction kicks you in the ass, or you in the wrong for want for wanting to leave? Than in your the mind your ideal as well as thoughts become cloudy, your heart races with guilt only because you allowed someone in that should not have been allowed to even step on your door step. In awe because we danced this dance and now that the lights are no longer on we pretend that what we have is real when in the mind we have already went our own way. It is a shame that things never are as pretty as they seem. Often we can play a game so long it becomes reality. Yet how do we let go, how do we move on from this? They say let the past stay in the past; however, when you can’t see anything more than lies or the trust that was broken it is in the best interest that two that was once one become one. It is sad and emotional because we have it planned a life that was meant to stand the test of times and yet, it did not happen. No need of dragging what is reality any longer, the fact that we know now that this is not going to work it is just time for us to leave. The ride was a great ride at first; we had lots of great times, now it is time for us to depart from one another peacefully.

This is not about the psychically relationships that we have with a person, this is dealing with anything in which can harm you emotionally. In fact I am talking about all things such as, drinking, drugs, overeating, depressive behaviors and things in this nature. It is easy to let go however, just because you let go does not mean that you will not want to look back. When we go through life changes it is good to build a support team. This helps us understand that we have someone that is there when other may or may not be there as often as we need them. We all need each other to build each other to lean on from time to time.