Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Suicide Facts

Suicide takes the lives of nearly 30,000 Americans every year.

Many who attempt suicide never seek professional care.


There are twice as many deaths due to suicide than HIV/AIDS.


Between 1952 and 1995, suicide in young adults nearly tripled.


Over half of all suicides occur in adult men, ages 25-65.


In the month prior to their suicide, 75% of elderly persons had visited a physician.


Suicide rates in the United States are highest in the spring.


Over half of all suicides are completed with a firearm.


For young people 15-24 years old, suicide is the third leading cause of death.


Suicide rates among the elderly are highest for those who are divorced or widowed.


80% of people that seek treatment for depression are treated successfully.


15% of those who are clinically depressed die by suicide.


There are an estimated 8 to 25 attempted suicides to 1 completion.


The highest suicide rate is among men over 85 years old: 65 per 100,000 persons.


1 in 65,000 children ages 10 to 14 commit suicide each year.


Substance abuse is a risk factor for suicide.


The strongest risk factor for suicide is depression.


By 2010, depression will be the #1 disability in the world. (World Health Organization)


In 2004, 32,439 people died by suicide. (CDC)


Suicide is the 11th leading cause of death in the U.S. (homicide is 15th). (CDC)


Suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death for 15- to 24-year-old Americans. (CDC)


It is estimated that there are at least 4.5 million survivors in this country. (AAS)


An average of one person dies by suicide every 16.2 minutes. (CDC, AAS)


There are four male suicides for every female suicide. (CDC, AAS)


Research has shown medications and therapy to be effective suicide prevention.


Suicide can be prevented through education and public awareness.


Last year SAVE educated 10,618 youth & parents on depression and suicide prevention.


Last year SAVE received 810 requests for information from 72 countries.


In 2004 it is estimated there were 811,000 suicide attempts in the US. (AAS)


There are three female suicide attempts for each male attempt. (CDC, AAS)


According to the Violent Death Reporting System, in 2004 73% of suicides also tested positive for at least one substance (alcohol, cocaine, heroin or marijuana).

Monday, July 29, 2013

TOP 10 WAYS TO AVOID SORORITY SISTER DRAMA!! :)

whether you are a new spring pledge, or a long time sister, dealing with your sorority sisters is one of the biggest challenges of being a greek!  so many problems can be avoided if you can practice just a few of these sorority sister anti-drama tips: 
1. choose your friends wisely
even though you will get to know and love all the sisters in your chapter, you will naturally be closer to some than others. pick your big, little, roommate and pledge class friends with care. it becomes clear very quickly which girls thrive on conflict, and which members have a level head.
2. cut back on the booze
probably 90% of emotional outbursts, tears, name-calling and ruination of relationships is fueled by overindulging in alcohol. inhibitions are lowered and drinking causes girls to do and say things they would never do sober. Less drinking = less drama!
3. hands off the boyfriends
keep clear of any sister’s current boyfriend, ex boyfriend, guy she’s interested in, or guy she’s even looked at. don’t flirt with the wrong guys at mixers, and don’t hook up with any male persons who are attached to your sorority sisters. period. find your own fraternity crushes.  
4. keep busy, busy, busy
drama often comes from having too much time on your hands. an idle mind can blow things out of proportion and make a minor situation seem like the end of the world. stay busy with activities, academics, philanthropy, leadership and healthy relationships. you won’t have time to get involved in overemotional scenes. 
5. get a thicker skin
whether you are the diva, or the one on the receiving end of a sister’s outburst, you need to toughen up! not everything is a criticism, or a stab in the back, or the ruination of a relationship. let things roll off your back. don’t be the one to find fault with every girl, or the one who has hurt feelings over everything. quickly let go of grudges too. consider sorority life as training for the real world.
6. be known as the calm one
if you establish a reputation of being a clear thinking, loyal, steady sister who does not engage in petty theatrics, then those who do, will not engage you. it’s no fun to involve a sister who calmly refuses to get all excited over the latest personal problem.
7. just say no to gossip.
gossip is the #1 killer in a sorority. don’t do it, don’t listen to it and don’t believe it. re-read your sorority creed instead, and remind yourself why you joined greek life. without being the sorority “goodie-goodie” try to promote anti-gossiping within your chapter. or politely walk away if a juicy gossip session is happening near you.
8. spread the love
replace the drama in your chapter with more positive experiences. if there was more love, respect, appreciation, kindness, and tolerance ~ the damaging drama would immediately plummet! recommend that your chapter increase the frequency of its traditions, rituals and bonding activities. sisters who feel the warmth of friendship are less likely to bicker. 
9. don’t worry ~ be happy
happy sisters are contented sisters. is your chapter doing enough to just be happy? sometimes sororities get so bogged down with meetings, requirements, fundraising, deadlines and recruitment pressures that they forget to just relax and have fun. step up the fun-factor!
10. deal with the drama
this is especially true for sisters on the executive board, who experience extra sisterhood conflicts. as a chapter leader, you may need to listen to member’s complaints and problems, but you don’t need to be eaten alive by them! remain calm at all times and don’t become emotionally invested in other’s issues. recommend positive solutions with the aid of your advisors and fellow board members. don’t shoulder the emotional burdens of the entire chapter alone. seek help, deflect the drama and thoughtfully solve problems ~ before they grow out of control and do more damage.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Never forget


Queen Bella Gutierrez
Big Sister Take Charge

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Looking 4 A Sorority? Come be a Pretty Girl!!!!

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Monday, July 15, 2013

“The night is the hardest time to be alive and 4am knows all my secrets.” 



Big Sister Take Charge
Queen Bella Gutierrez

Sunday, July 14, 2013

Friday, July 12, 2013




Sorority sisters are the siblings God forgot to give us.

Love Big Sister Dynamic

I love being in Pi Delta Pi.  I Have the BEST sisters in SL and some of the best friends in RL.  You all are TRULY amazing!

My advice to everyone else is to look for a sisterhood like PDP and learn how to be a true sister!

Big Sister Dynamic


Love my Sisters!!!
Big Sister Dynamic

I Love My Sorority Sisters


My Sisters are the best. We stick together thru to thick and thin. I love you ladies so much. It always feels good to know that when I am having a bad day I have sisters who help lift my spirits, if I need an ear or shoulder they always are one of the 1st  to offer. Thanks for being the best Sisters anyone can ever ask for. Never change <3
Pi Delta Pi For Life!!!!




Friday, July 5, 2013

Gettin it in!!!

Work it!! Work it!!!

PDP 4th PARTY!!!!

I had so much fun tonight at our event!!! I love each and every one of you for everything u have done for me. Watching the fireworks with my sisters was amazing!!!!

Love you all
Kandy

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

PI DELTA PI JULY CALENDAR

                                      PI DELTA PI JULY CALENDAR
JULY 5TH-- FOURTH OF JULY EVENT
TIME: 7PM SLT  DJ: TBA
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FIREWORKS FOOD AND FUN!!!!

JULY 17TH- CELEBRITY LOOK ALIKE
THEME: BEST CELEBRITY LOOK ALIKE
TIME: 6 PM SLT
DJ: TBA

JULY 25TH--JUVENILE ARTHRITIS AWARENESS POOL PARTY
TIME: 7PM SLT
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